At the Epic life Group.
We spoke about how believing in things, that are not real, causes criticism, and disempowerment. The things that are not real are EGO and Fear. They simply do not exist. Someone invented those words.
We have a story of who we think we are and we create stories of our future, that either empower us or disempower us. That is the truth.
We can either have a true story about ourselves, which is, i have over come everything in my life up to this point and I can achieve whatever I want in life. Or we can have a disempowering story of ourselves, which is I am not good enough, to do whatever I want.
Both of them are stories of who we think we are, but they are just stories and we can change them any time we want. Those stories are constantly changing and evolving. This is all true. EGO isn’t, ego is a judgment, that others put on us and we judge ourselves through the belief in it. But it does not exist and the belief in it causes so much disempowerment and judgement against this word that someone invented.
Where else do we judge ourselves with words that do not exist. We have all met people with confidence, but where did they get it? I have never seen any confidence ever. However I have met plenty of people who doubt themselves. So to the person who doubts themselves, the other person who is just being who they are, with out doubts, gets judged as having this thing that doesn’t exist, confidence.
Fear is always a story, that we imagine, what we don’t want. What may happen, not what will happen. It is always imaginary. So what it is really, is an emotional response, to an imaginary situation.
We don’t fear our cookers at home, yet all of us have burned our hands, and will do again. Why is that? Basically we are not playing a story of what might happen. So what happens when someone is afraid of flying? Have they ever hurt themselves on a plane? or are they just playing a very vivid story in their mind of what may happen not will?
What do you want to create because you are in charge of your story!
The whole point of this group is to get people talking about real stuff, looking at the truth, of who they are and then creating effective stories, that empower them.